[03] Built Different.

I’m 30 years old now, and over the past few months, I’ve been reflecting on my entrance into a new decade. Thankfulness fills my heart. I am a woman I am proud of, but let’s take a step back—context is important.

 In my 20s, I was the architect of my own life. I relied on empty affirmations from self-help books that lacked biblical grounding. I rushed to achieve my goals within a specific timeline, adorning myself with degrees and pursuing a career with the belief that I could climb the corporate ladder. In doing so, I neglected truth. I thought I was executing a solid plan that made sense to me, following my heart, but it led me astray. I held on to the false comforts of the world until the emptiness became undeniable. The god I believed in was a golden calf.

 It took time to realize that God could transform my mess into something beautiful. Gradually, I began to feel the weight lift as I learned to co-labor with Him and seek His will for my life. The broken jar of clay was no match for a skilled potter; He put me back together again.

 God is a builder—the ultimate architect. Because of this, I can trust the steps He has ordered for my life.

 At 30, I’ve learned that sometimes it’s not about what you’ve built on your own, seeking the glory you think you deserve. What truly matters is God and what He is creating within you. So, as He builds, make room for His work.

 I won’t encourage you to simply follow your heart; instead, take the time to know His.

-Shariah Nicole

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart,  and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.” - Proverbs 3:5-6